The Two Friends
by W. R. S. Ralston

The Two Friends THE TWO FRIENDS.[402] In the days of old there lived in a certain village two young men. They were great friends, went to _besyedas_[403] together, in fact, regarded each other as brothers. And they made this mutual agreement. Whichever of the two should marry first was to invite his comrade to his wedding. And it was not to make any difference whether he was alive or dead. About a year after this one of the young men fell ill and died. A few months later his comrade took it into his head to get married. So he collected all his kinsmen, and set off to fetch his bride. Now it happened that they drove past the graveyard, and the bridegroom recalled his friend to mind, and remembered his old agreement. So he had the horses stopped, saying: "I'm going to my comrade's grave. I shall ask him to come and enjoy himself at my wedding. A right trusty friend was he to me." So he went to the grave and began to call aloud: "Comrade dear! I invite thee to my wedding." Suddenly the grave yawned, the dead man arose, and said: "Thanks be to thee, brother, that thou hast fulfilled thy promise. And now, that we may profit by this happy chance, enter my abode. Let us quaff a glass apiece of grateful drink." "I'd have gone, only the marriage procession is stopping outside; all the folks are waiting for me." "Eh, brother!" replied the dead man, "surely it won't take long to toss off a glass!" The bridegroom jumped into the grave. The dead man poured him out a cup of liquor. He drank it off--and a hundred years passed away. "Quaff another cup, dear friend!" said the dead man. He drank a second cup--two hundred years passed away. "Now, comrade dear, quaff a third cup!" said the dead man, "and then go, in God's name, and celebrate thy marriage!" He drank the third cup--three hundred years passed away. The dead man took leave of his comrade. The coffin lid fell; the grave closed. The bridegroom looked around. Where the graveyard had been, was now a piece of waste ground. No road was to be seen, no kinsmen, no horses. All around grew nettles and tall grass. He ran to the village--but the village was not what it used to be. The houses were different; the people were all strangers to him. He went to the priest's--but the priest was not the one who used to be there--and told him about everything that had happened. The priest searched through the church-books, and found that, three hundred years before, this occurrence had taken place: a bridegroom had gone to the graveyard on his wedding-day, and had disappeared. And his bride, after some time had passed by, had married another man. [The "Rip van Winkle" story is too well known to require more than a passing allusion. It was doubtless founded on one of the numerous folk-tales which correspond to the Christian legend of "The Seven Sleepers of Ephesus"--itself an echo of an older tale (see Baring Gould, "Curious Myths," 1872, pp. 93-112, and Cox, "Mythology of the Aryan Nations," i. 413)--and to that of the monk who listens to a bird singing in the convent garden, and remains entranced for the space of many years: of which latter legend a Russian version occurs in Chudinsky's collection (No. 17, pp. 92-4). Very close indeed is the resemblance between the Russian story of "The Two Friends," and the Norse "Friends in Life and Death" (Asbjörnsen's New Series, No. 62, pp. 5-7). In the latter the bridegroom knocks hard and long on his dead friend's grave. At length its occupant appears, and accounts for his delay by saying he had been far away when the first knocks came, and so had not heard them. Then he follows the bridegroom to church and from church, and afterwards the bridegroom sees him back to his tomb. On the way the living man expresses a desire to see something of the world beyond the grave, and the corpse fulfils his wish, having first placed on his head a sod cut in the graveyard. After witnessing many strange sights, the bridegroom is told to sit down and wait till his guide returns. When he rises to his feet, he is all overgrown with mosses and shrub (var han overvoxen med Mose og Busker), and when he reaches the outer world he finds all things changed.] But from these dim sketches of a life beyond, or rather within the grave, in which memories of old days and old friendships are preserved by ghosts of an almost genial and entirely harmless disposition, we will now turn to those more elaborate pictures in which the dead are represented under an altogether terrific aspect. It is not as an incorporeal being that the visitor from the other world is represented in the Skazkas. He comes not as a mere phantom, intangible, impalpable, incapable of physical exertion, haunting the dwelling which once was his home, or the spot to which he is drawn by the memory of some unexpiated crime. It is as a vitalized corpse that he comes to trouble mankind, often subject to human appetites, constantly endowed with more than human strength and malignity. His apparel is generally that of the grave, and he cannot endure to part with it, as may be seen from the following story--
Moral of the Story
Be wary of promises made lightly, especially those involving the dead, as the consequences can be profound and irreversible.
Characters
The Bridegroom ★ protagonist
None explicitly given, but implied to be a healthy young man before his disappearance.
Attire: Wedding attire, appropriate for a Russian village wedding of the period, likely including a festive shirt and trousers.
Loyal, traditional, somewhat naive, respectful of old agreements.
The Dead Friend ◆ supporting
A reanimated corpse, capable of speech and movement.
Attire: Grave clothes, likely a simple shroud or burial attire.
Loyal, hospitable (in a macabre way), powerful, deceptive.
The Bride ○ minor
None explicitly given.
Attire: Wedding attire, appropriate for a Russian village wedding of the period, likely including a festive dress and head covering.
Patient (initially), practical (marrying another after the groom's disappearance).
The Priest ○ minor
None explicitly given, but implied to be an old man.
Attire: Clerical attire, likely a cassock.
Wise, knowledgeable (of church records), helpful.
Locations

The Graveyard
A graveyard where the dead friend is buried. Initially, it is a place of remembrance, but later transforms into a piece of waste ground.
Mood: Somber, respectful, then eerie and transformative
The bridegroom visits his friend's grave, and the dead friend arises, inviting him into the grave. This is where the time distortion occurs.

Inside the Grave
The interior of the dead friend's grave, described as an 'abode'.
Mood: Mysterious, otherworldly, disorienting
The bridegroom drinks three cups of liquor, each causing a hundred years to pass, leading to his Rip Van Winkle-like experience.

The Village
The village where the two friends lived. After 300 years, it is completely changed with different houses and unfamiliar people.
Mood: Familiar (initially), then alien and bewildering
The bridegroom returns to find his village utterly transformed, realizing the vast amount of time that has passed.
Story DNA
Moral
Be wary of promises made lightly, especially those involving the dead, as the consequences can be profound and irreversible.
Plot Summary
Two close friends make a pact to invite each other to their weddings, even if one dies. When one friend dies, the surviving friend, on his wedding day, stops at the grave to fulfill his promise. The dead friend emerges and invites him into the grave for three cups of liquor, each causing 100 years to pass. Upon emerging, the bridegroom finds his village and all he knew transformed by 300 years, his bride long married to another, leaving him a man lost in time.
Themes
Emotional Arc
innocence to bewilderment to profound loss
Writing Style
Narrative Elements
Cultural Context
The story is presented as a Russian folk tale, part of a broader tradition of 'Rip van Winkle' type narratives found across cultures, often linked to Christian legends like 'The Seven Sleepers of Ephesus' or monastic tales of time distortion.
Plot Beats (15)
- Two young men, close friends, make a pact to invite each other to their weddings, even if one is deceased.
- One friend falls ill and dies a year later.
- Months later, the surviving friend is on his way to his wedding with his kinsmen.
- Passing the graveyard, the bridegroom remembers his pact and stops the procession to invite his dead friend.
- The grave opens, and the dead friend emerges, thanking him for fulfilling the promise and inviting him into the grave for a drink.
- The bridegroom hesitates due to his waiting wedding party, but the dead friend insists it will be quick.
- The bridegroom enters the grave and drinks one cup of liquor, causing 100 years to pass.
- He drinks a second cup, and 200 years pass.
- He drinks a third cup, and 300 years pass.
- The dead friend takes leave, the coffin lid falls, and the grave closes.
- The bridegroom emerges to find the graveyard replaced by waste ground, no road, no kinsmen, and no horses.
- He runs to the village, which is completely changed with different houses and unfamiliar people.
- He goes to the priest, who is also a stranger, and recounts his story.
- The priest searches church books and finds a record from 300 years prior about a bridegroom who disappeared from the graveyard on his wedding day.
- The books also reveal that the bride eventually married another man.





